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The “New Normal” changing travel

Let’s go Rafting!

A friend on the west coast texted the invitation. The annual gathering for rafting is on, with Colorado allowing those activities based on their reopening. After holing up at home for three months, never venturing beyond two miles from where I sleep, it was exciting. Soon I was searching for flights.

Changes in Flying

I have lived through change in travel. During spring break over 25 years ago, I was with a group of college dorm mates driving south from Canada. Crossing the border, the only question the friendly agent asked the five of us was, “Are you all Canadians?” A quick nod, a verbal yes, and we were off, headed down I-95 to Florida for the first time.

Since then, I have traveled often between Canada, the US, and overseas. Air travel felt not much different than hopping on a bus. The world felt smaller.

Just over a month after the horrible attack on 9/11, I was flying through London on my way to Rome, and for the first time, I experienced the enhanced security that was being established.

Over two hours in a line to go through the security check during transfer was very stressful. Times had changed forever.

Over time, things have improved. I was traveling regularly, and sometimes I would go two weeks around the world internationally. I got used to spending more time in airline lounges. TSA precheck and Global Entry made my life going through security easier. I again started to be comfortable arriving less than one hour before the gate closed.

Limited flights

A three to four hour flight with my trusty mask, and a quick in and out through the airport, separated me from a fun weekend with guys I had only seen on video chat, rafting down the cold waters in Colorado. Or so I thought.

Soon I realized, the number of direct flights to Denver from Florida is near zero. In fact, there was only one flight and it landed near midnight. Which means I would need to stay a night that I wasn’t planning, or take a chance at a connection at one of the hubs.

After a day of back and forth, playing out the odds in my mind, I decided to drop out.

The world no longer feels small

I started to wonder, will traveling change after this?

Not able to just travel to NYC to see my sister, or Pennsylvania to visit my parents, or the wedding of a friend in Canada makes me realize the vast distance that now separates us. We are all fighting our individual battles against COVID-19, the illness and the psychological stress.

In a couple of years, I hope we will look back to the current day as a blip in our ever-shrinking world. But for now, we are blessed to live where others come to vacation, and expand your local connections. It’s amazing what you can find in our little corner of South Florida, and many interesting experiences that you can have and still obey the safety rules to minimize risk. We will continue to share our experiences in adapting to the New Normal, and you can send in yours if you want to share by sending an email to submissions@theparklander.com, or click on submit on our homepage.

By Li Pan

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Podcast Episode #10 – Wealth Management 101 with Evan Wolk

Joining us for this episode to talk about wealth management is Evan Wolk (evan@wolkfinancial.net) .  Evan is the managing director of Wolk Financial Management Inc (www.wolkfinancial.net).  We discuss what is wealth manager, and how to navigate the rollercoaster market we have seen this year.

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At some point, your teenager will ask for the keys to your car

Young beautiful black teenage driver holding car keys driving her new car

Many people move to Parkland and other area communities for their “A” rated schools, sprawling parks, and small-town community feel. Our towns are bustling with children. Over time, however, those children grow up and become teenagers. At some point, your teenager will ask for the keys to your car. At that time, you are faced with a decision: Do you trust that your baby girl is responsible enough to drive?

As anyone with a teenage driver knows, auto insurance for teenage drivers is extremely high. Like eye-popping, pull your hair out, scream to the mountain tops high! Ever wonder why there is such a HUGE increase in your premiums when your son or daughter turns 16?

Auto insurance carriers are in the business of accounting for risk. Their premiums are not arbitrarily pulled out of thin air. Teenage drivers are inexperienced and are more prone to make bad decisions. According to the CDC, the risk of motor vehicle crashes is higher amongst teens than any other age group.

According to AAA, about 72 percent of teen drivers admitted to engaging in one of the following risky behaviors in the past 30 days:

• Driving 10 mph over the speed limit on a residential street (47%)

• Driving 15 mph over the speed limit on a freeway (40%)

• Texting (35%)
• Red light running (32%) • Aggressive driving (31%) • Drowsy driving (25%)

These are the risky behaviors teenage drivers ADMITTED to. Expect that these percentages are significantly higher.

As a personal injury attorney, I can attest to the fact that teenage drivers are more likely than their parents to be involved in, not only a car accident, but a significant car accident. In many crash reports, teenage drivers admit to the police that they were texting or “distracted”. As a result, insurance companies simply do not want to insure your teenage driver – unless you pay through the nose.

To make matters worse, we are now in the heart of the 100 deadliest days for teen drivers. According to AAA, more than 30 percent of deaths involving teen drivers occur during a period that runs from Memorial Day to Labor Day.

What can you do to protect your teen driver?

AAA advises that parents talk with teens early and often about abstaining from dangerous behavior behind the wheel. This advice seems obvious and trite; however, we are in 2020 – there is an app for everything! Here are a few apps that can monitor your teenage driver’s activity:

• Life360: Through this tracking app you can share your real- time location with one another no matter where you are.

• True Motion Family: Tells you when your teenage driver is using their phone behind the wheel and allows you to monitor their driving habits.

• Driver Mode (i.e. AT&T Drive Mode): Driver mode turns on when the car is moving. This feature silences and automatically replies to text message notifications.

• Bouncie: Notifies parents when their teenager is speeding or braking abruptly.

• Lifesaver: Uses a carrot instead of a stick, awarding points to teen drivers when they drive without their phone.

• Autobrain: Plugs into a diagnostic port of your car and can report if your teenager speeds, goes to the wrong place, or has an accident.

• Safe Driver: Monitors the location and driving speed of your teenage driver. You can also set speed limits which alerts your phone.

Teenage driving is inevitable, but there are things we can do as parents to keep them safe. Please impress upon your teenager the dangers of driving – especially through Labor Day. These apps will not only allow your teenage driver to be accountable for their actions but will afford you some control over their actions. As an added bonus, a safer driver will (over time) lower your car insurance premiums.

Philip Snyder is a partner in the Delray Beach law firm Lyons Snyder Collins

 

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Twin protests in Parkland

On a cloudy Saturday afternoon, two peaceful protests were held at the corners of Holmberg and Pine Island road.  

On the MSD side of the street, Black Lives Matter/Change the Ref protesters were calling for justice, with chants including “Breonna Taylor, say her name”, “George Floyd say his name”, along with “Black Lives Matter”. 

On the other side of the street, a “Back the Blue” Rally was being held.  With many waving US flags, along with many “thin blue line” flags, and chants of “All lives matter”.  A golf cart drove up, blasting the COPS theme song.

The two sides faced each other for a while, until the planned march for the Black Lives Matter event started up Pine Island Road.

Both sides were very enthusiastic, with many residents driving by honking to show support, though it was tough to tell if they were supporting one or the other rally.  

One mom and her toddler were holding a sign saying – “I can back the blue and want equal justice for ALL.”

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July 2020 Magazine

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A family affair

 

Continuing our profiles of folks connected to the Parklander during the past 30 years, we talked to Bobbi Mechler, from the Mechler Group.  

 

Thirty years ago, when the Parklander published its first issue, the city was already known as a place where young families raised their children in a park-like environment.  That’s one of the reasons that attracted Bobbi and her husband to the area after relocating from Long Island.

Parkland was an idea.  Surprisingly though, Parkland at the time, had no public parks.  The first park in Parkland, Quigley Park, was dedicated in 1989.  Over the years, as the city grew, more and more parks were added. Now it is hard to imagine Parkland without all of its playgrounds, sports facilities, and trails.

Bobbi, working in the real estate industry, has always enjoyed meeting the residents and potential new residents moving to the area.  She shared some of her interesting experiences in the Parklander™ magazine back in 1991.  One story about the perfect seller, a homeowner baking cookies for potential buyers, is still good advice today.

Her love for her work had a strong impact on two of her children.  Her son, Brent, and daughter, Courtney, joined their mom soon after college.  They have been working together for 21 years.

Even though real estate can be a very competitive industry, Mechler’s family enjoyed working together, and there was much laughter. Brent and Courtney were quick studies, and inherited the same charm from their mom.  Soon, clients were feeding back how much they loved working with them.

Having her kids working with her was a boon for Bobbi.  She was able to give them hands on training and advice from her years in the business.  Courtney, who always wanted to work with her mom, helped the team adopt new technology, and market effectively over the years.

These days, real estate marketing is recovering in the “new normal”.  After a period of time with no face to face meetings, recently rules with masks have been adopted.  Property owners can now set the rules for buyers.  Some advice from Bobbi, if you are showing your house, is to keep your lights on, so it minimizes potential buyers from touching the switches.

Looking forward, Bobbi would like to see the area continue to retain the park-like atmosphere, so she can continue to enjoy her tennis, bike rides and walks.  Considering how Parkland went from no parks in the 80s, to now, with the right planning, we can continue to improve our neighborhood.  Someday, perhaps, one of her grandchildren will be helping new residents finding their home in Parkland.

 

by Li Pan

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Sourdough Passion

 

Microbes that we cannot see live around us. One newcomer, COVID-19, has caused all of us to huddle in our homes. This allowed me to reconnect with my sourdough starter, which consists of a combination of yeast and probiotic bacteria.

I love bread. In the world where you are often told to go light on carbs, what was once my go-to food item has become an indulgence. When I was researching healthy bread, to justify eating more of it, I found sourdough.

Only in the past hundred years has fast rising yeast and store bought bread became a norm in our lives. For thousands of years before that, making bread was a daily activity, where master artisan bread makers used what we now call the sourdough process to make bread.

The rapid rise yeast, which is used for most of the bread we eat, allowed us to make great looking bread quickly. The sourdough starter, a living culture of many microbes, requires patience to work with, and doesn’t often give as consistent a result as fast rising yeast.

A homemade sourdough bread, with its tangy flavor, along with the satisfaction of seeing it rise (when you are successful), is very gratifying. It’s also one of the healthiest bread choices you can have.

For many years, I had been nursing a sourdough starter, supposedly from a San Francisco bakery. Oftentimes, when life got busy, I neglected it in my fridge, as you only need to feed it once a week in the chilly climate. But when you let it thrive on your countertop, it comes alive with a ferocious appetite, requiring usually twice a day feedings.

During the shutdown, when all the local fine establishments were closed, I reconnected with my love for making sourdough bread, like many in the country, to satisfy my taste buds.

Making sourdough bread is simple. Feed your starter to keep it active and happy. Combine it with your dough in the evening, and an overnight rise will allow you to make a fresh loaf in the morning.

My starter loves the whole wheat flour I source from the prairies of Montana and the Dakotas. Within hours of feeding, large bubbles are created, like magic. It’s these air bubbles that will give your dough the bulk, and when healthy can double or triple your original dough size.

The special flavor that you don’t find in non- sourdough bread, comes from the bacteria that lives in the starter, symbiotic with the yeast. These organisms convert the
simple sugars and carbs in your flour into gut-friendly prebiotics, and lowers the glycemic index of the resulting bread.

Quick advice on sourdough starter

It takes time and luck to create your own reliable sourdough starter. After trying unsuccessfully several times, I found that a starter sourced from a bakery is best. You can usually request it from your local baker, or order them online.

Once you have your starter, you need to maintain it. You will need to regularly discard 1⁄2 of your starter, then add equal amounts of flour and filtered water by weight to replenish. This is best done with a digital scale and a mason jar. Filtered water is required to remove the chlorine in tap water, which inhibits the yeast and probiotics in the starter.

This process needs to be done every 12 hours if you are keeping your starter at room temperature. If you are refrigerating your starter, every 7 days is enough to keep your starter fed and happy.

Happy fermenting.
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Macarons – delightful treats

There are two types of people in the world.  Ones who have experienced macarons, and ones who have not.  Macarons are a sweet cookie, made with meringue.  For most of us who are not pastry chefs, meringue is made from egg whites, sugar, and in the case with macarons, almond meal is also added.

 

Pastries require careful preparation and are often impacted by the humidity and temperature we experience here in South Florida.  This is only one of the reasons pastries are something I enjoy but rarely attempt to make myself.

Macarons originated in Italy during the middle ages.  It was brought to France by Catherine de’ Medici, the Queen of France and of the famed Renaissance family origin.  It’s the french variety that has gotten famous over the years, and the Ladurée chain of bakeries have been spreading the luxury dessert across the world for the past 150 years.

It was at one of the Ladurée bakeries that Susan Mallow, owner of Bon Macarons Made with Love in Coral Springs, first experienced a Macaron with one of her daughters.  Susan decided to attempt to bake these treats right here in Coral Springs, and it took a lot of trial and error before she felt it was perfect.

Biting into one of these locally made strawberry and cream macarons, you feel the cookie resist slightly then give way.  It’s sweet, but not overly so, and the flavors from fresh strawberries come alive, and blend well with the Russian butter.  There are a wide variety of flavors to choose from, including chocolate brownies, peanut butter and jelly (PBJ), ganache, mocha, espresso coffee, and vanilla bean.  

Each macaron sells for $1-$3 depending on size and ingredients, and is a wonderful treat.  If you want to try to make it yourself, Susan will be happy to share her recipe, but be prepared for some hard work whipping the egg whites, and some trial and error to adapt to your oven.  She will also be offering virtual classes soon, for those who are interested.

 

Contact Susan via instagram @bonmacarons_

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SPORTS SPRINGS ETERNAL

By Nelson Dacier, author of The March to Madness

 

The term “Sports” can be defined as an activity involving physical exertion and skill in which an individual or team competes against another or others according to a specific set of guidelines or rules. In addition, some commonplace synonyms for the word “Sports” include amusement, diversion, frolic, pleasure and recreation. It is in this fundamental form, rather than the former, that I will be discussing. 

The world was shaken several months ago by the Covid-19 crisis, and initially, it was quite difficult to grasp the widespread impact that the virus would have on all our lives. My first thought went to the safety and security of my family and friends and what the correct course of action would be to protect those closest to me. Then, during a phone call with my twenty-year-old son, who is currently attending a prestigious West Coast university, he said eight words that would alter my world forevermore, “What are we going to do without sports?” 

It had never occurred to me that I would live an extended era of my existence sans sports. Sure, there had been spans and stretches when strikes subverted seasons or incidents of inclement weather deferred and delayed performances for some brief period of time, but nothing had ever eradicated all events and shut down all sports, both professional and amateur, across the globe. I felt as if I had lost an intrinsic part of my essence.

Previously, on plenty of occasions, I would find myself sitting and channel surfing for something worthwhile to watch on TV, and, lo and behold, when all else failed, there was always a game to gaze upon. It was my father who invariably advocated for the action and uncertainty of any given sporting event over the predictable and typical inane sitcom, soap opera or dramatic series. “I never know the ultimate outcome of a sporting contest in advance,” he barked, continuing, “but I can surely submit the scenario of any given popular program that is presently on the air.” Thankfully, the reappearance of sports is on the horizon. 

Oh how I long for the camaraderie of crashing on the couch with my cohorts as we relish the comeback of competitive contests. Whether it is the NBA, NHL, NFL, MLB or even perhaps the PGA, ATP or collegiate challenges, I can assure you that hordes of fans will once again be reminiscing in their resourceful recliners. You may ask, “Why are sports so intertwined with today’s society as a whole?” Perhaps it is the hope, promise, and escape that sports allow us to achieve, if only for a few fleeting hours a day or a week. And while most of us are athletic supporters rather than actual athletes, the feeling of community, the sense of association, and the authentic bonding with our brethren will once again be proud and prevalent. 

We lost several significant happenings over the many past months including my personal favorite the NCAA Men’s Collegiate Basketball Tournament, more affectionately known as “March Madness” or “The Big Dance.” There was no madness in March. Nor were there any decisive dances or celebratory ceremonies. The arenas were empty, the stadiums were silent and our hearts were left hungry and hankering for seasons more satisfying. 

And now the debate rages on regarding how, when, and where a return to regulation will occur. But does it really matter? I think not. What truly matters in the long run is that the games regenerate, that hope once again springs eternal, and that we can all get back to our cozy confines and the cheers of competition. 

 

LONG LIVE SPORTS!!! 

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Top 5 Advice for Wearing Masks for an extended period

It has now been a few months since most of us first laid hands on our masks.  During the lockdown, they were used while we ventured out to Publix, and to other stores that were still open.  Now as we have a wider range of activities to draw us out of our homes, the use of masks is increasing.

Masks were not initially designed for continual use.  Now, with more and more activity, and COVID-19 still a threat, work environments are mandating masks.  A lot of folks are facing 8 hrs or more of mask use.  It is a challenge to keep a mask on for a whole day, so we want to share some of the top advice regarding mask use:

 

Protect your Ears

Masks that hook around your ears are now a common sight around the community.  The ear hooks eventually irritate the back of your ear after using it for a couple hours; you can relieve this by getting a mask with straps that tie behind your head vs your ears, or with a single tie behind the head.  You can also get ear guards that will protect your ears.

Comfort

Now that you have protected the back of your ears, it’s time to consider the materials of which the mask is made of; polyester and synthetic material traps more heat vs cotton.  The N95 masks are typically made with thin synthetic fibers, but may not be as comfortable as a cotton mask.  Other moisture can also get trapped behind the masks, so one suggestion is to put a tissue on your nose behind the mask, it may help with some irritation.  If you feel suffocated with your mask, you can try mints or chewing gum, as they will help regulate your breathing.

Also, try out your masks at home before you use them for an extended period of time.  This will help you figure out the more painful areas and give you a chance to address it.

Credit: Stanford University / 4C Air

Make it Smell Better

You will be spending a bit of time with your mask when you venture out.  So, if you are sensitive to smells, consider using Menthols, or scented antibacterial sprays inside your mask. These will give it a pleasant smell, and reduce germs accumulating inside your mask.  You may also consider a few drops of essential oils.  For example, lavender oil is used to relieve anxiety; peppermint may help with mental focus; eucalyptus will help open your lungs, and bergamot has antioxidant properties, and can be a herbal option to ward off germs.

Foggy Glasses

For the 64% of Americans wearing glasses, especially in the South Florida humidity, foggy glasses are another annoyance you will face with masks.  First, make sure you have a tight fit on top of the mask.  If you have a metal strip in your mask, make sure it sits snugly on your nose and skin.  You can also try to wear your glasses lower, and thus down your nose.  For masks that tie behind the head, criss-crossing the straps can also be used to keep the fabric pressed closely against your face. 

Style

Since you are already customizing your masks to make them more comfortable, you might as well personalize it with your style.  The choice of masks now is ever expanding, and you can get them custom made for you.  You can choose a different mask based on your mood or outfit.

Credit: Katie May Masks

In Closing

Living with a mask on your face is now a part of everyone’s daily routine, you might as well try to make it as comfortable as possible.  There are masks for every purpose and occasion, so get a few styles and use them based on your activities.

 

Personally, I enjoy taking mask breaks when I can, but please wear a mask when you can not be socially distant in public.  You are protecting me by wearing a mask, and I am protecting you by wearing mine.

Submit your comments and your stories on masks to us.

 

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Travel has changed – Rafting trip upended

Let’s go Rafting!

A friend on the west coast texted the invitation. The annual gathering for rafting is on, with Colorado allowing those activities based on their reopening. After holing up at home for 3 months, never venturing beyond 2 miles from where I sleep, it was exciting. Soon I was searching for flights… 

Changes in Flying

I have lived through change in travel. During spring break over 25 years ago, I was with a group of college dorm mates and driving south from Canada. Crossing the border, the only question the friendly agent asked the 5 of us was, “Are you all Canadians?”.  A quick nod, a verbal yes, and we were off, speeding down I-95 to Florida for the first time.

Since then, I have travelled often between Canada, the US, and overseas. Air travel felt not much different than hopping on a bus. The world felt smaller.

Just over a month after the horrible attack on 9/11, I was flying through London on my way to Rome, and for the first time, I experienced the enhanced security that was being established. Over two hours in a line to go through the security check during transfer was very stressful.  Times had changed forever.

Over time, things have improved.  I was travelling regularly, and sometimes I would go two weeks around the world internationally.  I got used to spending more time in airline lounges.  TSA Precheck and Global Entry made my life going through security easier.  I again started to be comfortable arriving less than one hour before the gate closed.

Limited flights

A 3-4 hour flight with my trusty mask, and quick in and out through the airport, separated me from a fun weekend with guys I had only seen on video chat, rafting down the cold waters in Colorado. Or so I thought.  

Soon I realized, the number of direct flights to Denver from Florida is near zero.  In fact, there was only one flight and it landed near midnight.  Which means I would need to stay a night that I wasn’t planning, or take a chance at a connection at one of the hubs.

After a day of back and forth, playing out the odds in my mind, I decided to drop out.  Beaten not by the rapids, but lack of travel options.

The world no longer feels small

I started to wonder, will traveling change after this? 

Not able to just travel to NYC to see my sister, or Pennsylvania to visit my parents, or the wedding of a friend in Canada; makes me realize the vast distance that now separates us. We are all fighting our individual battles against both COVID-19, the illness and the mental / psychological stress.

In a couple of years, I hope we will look back to the current day as a blip in our ever-shrinking world.  But for now, we are blessed to live where others come to vacation, and expand your local connections.  It’s amazing what you can find in our little corner of south florida, and many interesting experiences that you can have and still obey the safety rules to minimize risk.  We will continue to share our experiences in adapting in the New Normal, and you can send in yours, if you want to share by sending an email to submissions@theparklander.com, or click on submit on our homepage.

 

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