Putting the “hot” in the Hot Mess band, lead female vocalist Stacey Isaacs, 51—an attorney by day and a pop singer by night—rocks out with the classic rock and pop cover band she formed three years ago with five other local musicians. A partner, along with William Haro and her husband, David Benn, in the WorkInjuryRights law firm, a firm specializing in worker’s compensation, Isaacs, the mother of two teenage girls—Reese, 15, and Jules, 13—morphs into a rock star at night.
“The name of the band, ‘Hot Mess,’ is a great description of my life,” jokes Isaacs. “Multitasking and being pulled in all directions resonate for myself and many women.”
Along with Glen Friedman on bass guitar, Nick Montgomery on acoustic guitar, Adam Gutman on lead guitar, Russ Meadows on drums, and Leo Perez (aka the Keytar God) on keyboards, the group plays at local venues including THRōW Social in Delray Beach, the Biergarten in Boca Raton, and Sharkey’s Bar and Grill in Coral Springs, where they will perform live on Oct. 5.
“I love being a part of the band. It’s an outlet for me. As a busy attorney, business owner, and busy mom, life can be stressful,” Isaacs says on her Instagram page. “This gives me something, whether we’re practicing or performing, where I do not think about anything else but the music.”
Growing up in musical theater, Isaacs always loved performing but suffered from stage fright, which took years to overcome. She was inspired and mentored by her aunt, Hela Young, Miss New Jersey of 1971, who had a talent for singing. As a child, she remembers her aunt performing at Lincoln Center in New York City. She was encouraged by Young, who took her to voice lessons in New York, something she enjoyed doing, and she would come home every night and practice in her bedroom.
Her aunt, who later went on to become the host for the New Jersey Lottery on TV each night and was president of the New Jersey Commission on Holocaust Education, helped Isaacs prepare to sing at her law school graduation from Seton Hall Law School in 1997.
Isaacs practiced and sang Simon and Garfunkel’s 1970 hit, “Bridge Over Troubled Water,” in front of 1,000 attendees, an event that helped her overcome her stage fright. “That was a pivotal moment,” she remembers. “Now I love being on stage and performing.”
With a voice that has been compared to that of Alanis Morissette, Isaacs is inspired by singers and musicians Pat Benatar, Joan Jett, and the rock band Heart.
Signature songs include Journey’s “Don’t Stop Believing” and “What’s Up?” by 4 Non Blondes. She has also been known to perform a mean rendition of Morissette’s 1991 hit, “You Oughta Know.”
Bass guitarist, Freidman, 50, owner of the G-Clef Music Academy in Parkland, is a professional guitar, piano, and trumpet player. He has played with the likes of jazz greats Arturo Sandoval, David Sandborn, and Tito Puente as well as for Walt Disney World, Clyde Beatty Cole Bros. Circus, a number of cruise lines, and on recordings for Emilio Estefan’s Miami Sound Machine.
“Music gets in your blood and soul,” says Friedman, who knew from a young age he wanted to make a career in music. Inspired by Canadian jazz trumpeter Maynard Ferguson (“my idol”), Friedman also admires Journey, the Beatles, and ’80s Hair Metal bands such as Whitesnake.
Drummer Meadows, a “true Floridian,” lives in his grandparents’ and parents’ former home in Coral Springs. He also plays guitar and sings and was the catalyst for forming the band. In addition, Meadows is the tennis pro at Heron Bay in Parkland.
He forged many connections on the tennis court, including those of Friedman and Perez, and says the concept began as a hobby. Seeing a connection between the rhythm of tennis and the rhythm of music, he says, “we were surprised when it took off so well.”
Meadows continues, “We’ve become one of South Florida’s most popular cover bands. We assembled the right musicians, the right sounds—a mix of pop and rock—and make a good presentation on stage.”
The drummer, who has been drumming for 30 years, admires Led Zeppelin and the Police, especially the Police’s drummer, Stewart Copeland. He loves performing Journey’s 1980 hit, “Any Way You Want It,” and its 1981 hit, “Stone in Love.”
Noting that the band boasts both a female and a male lead vocalist, Meadows believes that this sets them apart from other bands. “We’re the quintessential cover band with a twist,” he says.
For Isaacs, who also hosts the “Success of a Hot Mess” podcast, one of the highlights of being part of a cover band is the camaraderie and the fact that her teenage daughters are proud to bring their friends to see her perform.
Future goals for the band include playing larger venues, such as the Parkland Amphitheatre and the Coral Springs Center for the Arts.
“We’re all good friends,” Isaacs says, “and enjoy performing and doing what we love. We appreciate all the support of our friends, family, and fans—and the best part is that my daughters think I’m cool.”
Hot Mess will perform live at Sharkey’s Bar & Grill, 10365 Royal Palm Blvd., Coral Springs, on Oct. 5. For more information, visit sharkeysfl.com or call (954) 341-9990. Find the Hot Mess band on Instagram at instagram.com/wearethehotmessband.